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Do You Argue For Your Limitations?

November 29, 2009

Have you ever met someone who complains for hours about all the problems in their lives, then when offered several really great solutions they argue for why they must continue to do what is clearly not working? This is called “arguing for your limitations”.

Like a stuck record, this person is convinced that the world is out to get them, nothing goes their way, all the existing solutions and opportunities failed them (even while they work beautifully for others), and if they change what’s not working for them, they are convinced it will turn out *worse* than it already is.

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Are You Stuck in Your Story?

September 19, 2009

We each create our own story, usually empahsized with facts such as where we grew up, what our family is like, where we went to school, and how we got into our current field of work. Our story is how we describe who we are to ourselves and others. It is how we internally define ourselves— the basis from which we vibrate energy out into the world and take action. It is the information we tell people we are just meeting or friends we’ve known for a long time, and represents the way we feel about ourselves. Your story keeps evolving all through your entire life. If you are breathing, you are telling some story…the question is: Is the story you are telling yourself serving you?

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