Releasing Your Victim Status

How often do you feel like a victim? How often do you feel like things happen TO you, instead of FOR you? Some of you reading this will probably say never, and if so you might really want to look a little deeper.

This is not easy to admit, but recently I became aware that I was raised to feel like a victim. In no way do I blame my family. I doubt they set out to *make* me feel that way, let alone to feel that way themselves, but it still is the truth: I was raised to feel and act like a victim.

I know I was raised to feel this way be cause my family’s favorite pastime is complaining! Not only did the adults around me model how to complain, we were actively encouraged to look for things to complain about and rewarded with extra attention when we did. In family gatherings, not only could you get lots of attention for complaining, most times the rest of the group would join in and add their complaints to the mix!

But it didn’t stop there. Complaining wasn’t even JUST the favorite pastime in my family, but in the culture around me, where it’s still active every where in our media and news sources!

But that was then, and now I understand how I create my reality with my thoughts, words, actions and the FEELINGS they invoke in me. Those feelings send out a vibrational signal to the Universe through the electro-magnetic field that connects everything. So, I’ve learned that when I take 100% responsibility for my thoughts, emotions, and feelings, the world around me shifts to reflect that back to me.

I know that I am a Deliberate Creator and what I give my attention GROWS vibrationally, and before long, it comes into physical manifestation. When you complain, you are giving a signal to the Universe that you want MORE of what you are complaining about, and that keeps you feeling stuck, as if nothing ever improves, and in a perpetual state of victimhood.

I have come to learn that if I really want to experience change, not just complain about it, I have to begin thinking and speaking differently. Even if I am complaining about complaining! 😉

That’s because it is impossible
to complain and NOT feel like a victim!

It makes vibrational sense: If you want to let go of your victim mentality, the first step is to stop complaining. It might be easier for you to make a decision to halt your complaints in mid-thought. However, if you hang around a bunch of people who like to complain verbally or in writing (blogs, articles, etc.), before you know it, it may become your habit, too. Once complaining has become an ingrained habit, you may find yourself doing it without even trying!

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That means that if you REALLY want

to release your victim status,

you must FIRST let go of

the habit of complaining!

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You’ve probably heard me say that EVERYTHING that we say is affirming something – either something positive or something negative, depending on the label we give to it. When we complain, we are affirming our status as victims.

It’s up to you, though. No one else is going to think your thoughts, speak your words, or feel your feelings and emotions. When would you like to release the victim status and feel more empowered? That’s the time you will want to commit to letting go of the habit of complaining. It’s never too late to stop complaining and create a new habit.

Now it’s your turn: Do you have a story of how you let go of complaining and the victim status it creates? Share it below so others can benefit!

Scripting Success

Scripting is a process that puts you in the feeling-place of receiving what you are wanting to experience AS IF it is already happened or happening.

Moving Into the Present Moment

By using the power of your imagination, you can experience feeling in the present moment how you will feel oncscriptinge your desire has come into physical manifestation. Scripting moves you from the future to the present moment, thereby shifting your attitude, belief in possibilities, and physical energy into closer alignment with your desires.

You can script your future by writing down, speaking out loud, acting AS IF (when possible), or a combination of all three! The real trick to experiencing benefit from scripting is to have FUN with it ~let your imagination play with all the possibilities that feel really good to you! If it feels like work, stop.

You can use scripting to imagine success for your business and your personal life. There really is no limit, unless you believe there is! You can script out a business that supports the personal lifestyle you’ve always been seeking. You can script once on a subject, or as often as you enjoy the process.

Tunisia Media Scripting Success!

One of the best and most powerful recent examples of scripting is what the media of Tunisia did shortly after their social-media-driven revolution. This video explains in detail how the entire media of Tunisia set aside political differences and got together to spend one day (24 hours) speaking, writing and acting AS IF it was 3.33 years in the future: June 16, 2014. Watch this video now and see how scripting affected an entire country:

Inspiring, Isn’t It?!?

One of my friends had shared the story with me on February 16, 2011 and I was so impressed by this simple but effective action by an entire country! After watching this video today, I began to wonder…beyond just helping ourselves personally…

Is this something we could do to help Japan? How might Japan be able to see beyond the current situation to something that benefits every citizen? Would Japan’s media be open to such an experiment?

I’d love to know what you think of the video and scripting! Share below your thoughts and ideas how you might be using scripting in the future to pre-pave a better life.

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