May Co=Creation Cafe: The Missing Secret to Parenting

Fresh on the Menu: The Missing Secret to Parenting

featuring special guests
Benni Heacock and Denny Hagel,
of Innovative Parenting, LLC

Do you have a passion to teach your children how the law of attraction works and how to harness its power in their lives? Are you interested in raising a generation of children living their lives free from limiting beliefs? If you wish to see children empowered to claim the life they were born to live, and in so doing, effectively changing the world, then you will want to know about the Missing Secret to Parenting.

Guests Benni Heacock and Denny Hagel, both have a background in psychology and experience working with children. Benni, a counselor in private practice, works with individuals and families. She also teaches workshop to people in education, business, religious organizations, and the private sector. Denny has extensive experience working with children with ADD & ADHD in the school system, and she also home schools her own grandchildren. Benni and Denny are co-owners and directors of Innovative Parenting LLC, and dedicated to helping parents, teachers, and other adults teach the law of attraction to children.

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Referenced in the Call:

Innovative Parenting, LLC site (eBooks and ezine)

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> Abraham-Hicks and the link to listen to their introduction CD


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Nancy Barry-Jansson
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Do You Argue For Your Limitations?

Have you ever met someone who complains for hours about all the problems in their lives, then when offered several really great solutions they begin to argue about why they must continue to do what is clearly not working for them? This is called “arguing for your limitations”~arguing for why it’s impossible to change, why it’s necessary remain stuck in misery.

Like a proverbial stuck record, this person is convinced that the world is out to get them, nothing goes their way, all the existing solutions and opportunities have failed them (even while they work beautifully for others). Furthermore, if they try to change what’s not working for them, they are convinced it will turn out *worse* than it already is! This person will argue for hours about why *nothing will ever change*.


Convinced that nothing works, that is in fact what these people experience ~and they can PROVE it! In fact, they could go on for days with example after example of how this is true. Deep down, these people feel powerless and keep wondering why someone doesn’t come along an *solve* the problem for them.

The sad irony is~even if others DID solve their problems, it would only be temporary because this person believes and is therefore attracting “nothing works for me, my life is constant struggle”. Whatever gains they receive through others helping them is quickly lost, and they are soon back behind the eight-ball of life. They are forever stuck in a cycle of nothing working and constant struggle.

You may think you are pretty evolved and are grateful you are not like this. However, many who consider themselves conscious and deliberate creators about most subjects may find that they still harbor similar attitudes on *certain subjects*. Money is the most common one for individuals. Business owners often have it about selling and marketing.

Is there an area of your life where nothing seems to be working, and everything you try fails? How often do you tell *that* story? Do you find yourself justifying why your problem is unsolvable? These are all signs that you *might* be spending some of your energy arguing for your limitations on this subject.

If you think you might be limiting yourself in a certain area, ask yourself:

How has this limiting belief served me? We usually took on a limiting belief to protect ourselves when we were younger, without realizing we have outgrown the need as an adult. Be grateful for how it has served you and recognize why you no longer need it.

How would I show up in the world if I didn’t believe this? How does it feel when you consider a life without this belief?

What would it take for me to feel safe in replacing this limiting belief with a supportive one? When you know what you don’t want, it points to what you DO want. By choosing supportive thoughts ahead of time, and developing a plan you can implement, you have something to turn to in lieu of the limiting beliefs.

Based on your answer to the last question, begin implementing your plan for replacing the belief. Then, notice what begins to change around you.

Just like it’s important to clear the physical clutter, it’s important to release the limiting beliefs that no longer serve us.

Note: If it just feels too scary to release a limiting belief, that’s OK, too. Recognizing it is the first step. You can always change your mind, or seek a coach or counselor to assist you in the process.

Are you harboring limiting beliefs? Have you recently let some go? What helped you release the beliefs that were not supporting you?

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