Has this ever happened to you…
You are so thrilled about a product or service, in your joy, you spontaneously shared your appreciation with your friends. Then, several of those friends choose to try out the same product or service, but a certain few always end up finding fault where you only found pure joy and appreciation?
Or, conversely, have you been so inspired by a friend’s endorsement that you raced out to purchase the product or service, only to be shocked at how bad it was?
What on Earth happened?
Seriously, how could the same product or service be received in such vastly different ways?
Law of Attraction lined each person up with their dominant energy flow. Like it always does, whether we acknowledge the power of Law of Attraction in our life, or not.
Those who love the product or service are vibrationally aligned to appreciate the experience, possibly ignoring or not being bothered by aspects that would frustrate others. The dissatisfied parties are not vibrationally aligned with appreciation, possibly being unconsciously triggered by many aspects without understanding why.
As long as you are taking responsibility for your own alignment choices, all is well. Nothing ‘bad’ happened, unless you have labeled it so.
If you are finding yourself unhappy with a product or service that someone else enthusiastically referred…check your own alignment.
How are you really feeling, in general and about these products/services?
Where or when have you felt this way before?
Sitting with your feelings and answering those questions may begin to help you unravel the source so you can shed some (conscious) light upon it and begin shifting your own vibration. It’s OK to ask for help if you get stuck.
Appreciation, or lack thereof, can become a habit. Especially for people who harbor an unconscious story that ‘nothing works for me’ or ‘I never get what I want’. Until they recognize this unconscious belief and the patterns it has created, they will go through life blaming experiences and others for things not working out, or never getting what they want.
I know, because I have been one of those people.
It wasn’t until I was old enough to experience a few cycles of the same people, same situations, same disappointments that I was able to begin to recognize the common theme and the underlying emotion. As I did the work to unravel, I discovered the old stories that were running unconsciously and driving my vibration on a wide variety of topics. The good news is that if I can work through this, so can you.
So, when you hear someone enthusiastically referring a product or service, check in with yourself before taking any action. It can be so intoxicating witnessing another’s enthusiasm and appreciation that we forget to follow our own guidance.
Check in with these questions:
A. Why would I be interested or not interested?
B. Will this help me meet a need and am I really willing to receive a solution?
C. Do I harbor doubts? If so, why?
D. Does the idea of purchasing this product or service feel light and joyful to me? If not, it’s time to dig deeper.
When a solution feels fully light and joyful, that’s a good time to move forward by finding out more information. As you do, notice how you feel.
Your Emotional Guidance System is always giving you the best advice and showing you where you are on the emotional / vibrational scale. Notice how you are really feeling, emotionally and inside your body, then follow that inner guidance before taking action suggested by others. Over time, you’ll begin to feel the right answer for you the very moment you hear about a product or service.
Oh, and one more thing: Don’t be surprised if something feels off at one point in your life and later down the road, it feels just right. Your preferences do change as your consciousness grows, which is always happening, even if you are not yet aware.