Want to *REALLY* Help Haiti…or Anyone Else?

Today, I listened in on a guided meditation to help the victims of the Haiti earthquake, and the person leading the meditation starting out by asking everyone attending to close their eyes, relax…and visualize the horror, devastation, and death happening in Haiti. I’m not kidding. This person was trying to drag us all into pity, sadness, and feeling sorry for the people of Haiti, and I realized that was *my cue* to leave!
Instead, I sat in my office, quieted my mind, got into a heart-coherent state, and visualized Haiti fully recovered, totally rebuilt, healed and healthy, the sun shining and hearts full of love. I saw the streets clean and citizens feeling appreciation for the out-pouring of love after the earthquake, knowing that their country is doing much better than ever *because of the earthquake*.
Why did I visualize something good, positive and uplifting rather than something sorrowful, pitiful and depressing? Because I know that as I hold *anything* or *anyone* as the focus of my attention, I am at the same time sending that vibration to them. I know that when someone is in trouble, pain, or difficulty, it is far more beneficial to them to imagine them whole, healthy, and happy! This is why prayer is so powerful, and known to create miraculous healings.
Abraham explains it this way…
<blockquote><em>You cannot get sick enough to help sick people get better. You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive. It is only in your thriving that you have anything to offer anyone. If you’re wanting to be of an advantage to others, be as tapped in, turned in, turned on as you can possibly be.
~Abraham, excerpted from the San Diego, CA on Saturday, February 15th, 2003  workshop</em></blockquote>
In 2010, they would say something like, “Get in the Vortex before you hold anyone you care about as your focus of attention.” The Vortex is their term for a heart-coherent state, that state of appreciation and love you feel when you interact with pets and loved ones. The HeartMath Institute in Boulder Creek, CA has research proving that when we are in a heart-coherent state, we have a positive effect on those around us and to whom we are connected.
If giving money feels good and heart-coherent to you, then do it. The money they receive from people who hold them in high-regard with love and appreciation will create miracles for them. If you are not in a heart-coherent state about donating, please spare them your pity-money. Money imbued with hope, love, and appreciation will be so much more beneficial for their total recovery.
If you cannot get yourself to feel good for the people of Haiti, then that is your work. Do what you need to do to get to a positive, loving, healing place. Look back on your own life, your own struggles, and realize how often they were the catalyst for wonderful experiences that could not have happened otherwise. (See my post “Everything You Experience is…A Blessing”) Shift your own energy to a positive place in regard to Haiti, THEN, envision that for them now. And send your money to them from the place of hope, love and appreciation.
The same goes for helping anyone you know who is unhealthy, struggling, or going through a hard time. You are of greater help to others when you are in a positive place, and see them in that same place, too.

One week ago, a 7.0 magnitude earthquake struck the country of Haiti.

Today, I listened in on a guided meditation intended to help the victims of the Haiti earthquake, and the person leading the meditation started out by asking everyone attending to close their eyes, relax…and visualize the horror, devastation, and death happening in Haiti.

I’m not kidding. Believe me, I wish I was!

This person, believing they were well-meaning, was trying to drag us all into pity, sadness, and feeling sorry for the people of Haiti, thinking that would help. I realized it wouldn’t and knew that was *my cue* to leave that meditation. There is NO point in visualizing more horror~for anyone. It will never help them!

Instead, I sat in my office, quieted my mind, got into a heart-coherent state, and visualized Haiti fully recovered, totally rebuilt, healed and healthy, the sun shining and hearts full of love. I saw the streets clean and citizens feeling appreciation for the out-pouring of love after the earthquake, knowing that their country is doing much better than ever *because of the earthquake*. I allowed myself to stay there, visualizing this wonderful feeling, and then I felt that positive energy going to everyone in Haiti. I felt them benefiting immediately.

The beautiful coast of Haiti

The beautiful coast of Haiti

Why did I visualize something good, positive and uplifting rather than something sorrowful, pitiful and depressing? Because I know that as I hold *anything* or *anyone* as the focus of my attention, I am at the same time sending my vibration to them.

This is because the Law of Attraction is always lining up similar vibrational frequencies~like a universal tuning fork. When I hold someone as my focus of attention while worrying, I’m sending that energy to them. When I hold someone as my focus while I am angry, I’m sending that energy to them. What energy would be most helpful to Haiti right now~your worry, fear, and pity, or your heart-felt love, appreciation, and hope for their future?

I know that when someone is in trouble, pain, or difficulty, it is far more beneficial to them to imagine them whole, healthy, and happy! This is why affirmative group prayer is so powerful, and known to create miraculous healings. This is why Ho’oponopono is so powerful in healing energy across all time and space ~something that the Ancient Ha’waiian’s understood without the benefit of Quantum Physics.

The more people who hold Haiti in a positive place now, the faster and better they will recover. Abraham explains it this way…

You cannot get sick enough to help sick people get better. You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive. It is only in your thriving that you have anything to offer anyone. If you’re wanting to be of an advantage to others, be as tapped in, turned in, turned on as you can possibly be.

~Abraham, excerpted from the San Diego, CA on Saturday, February 15th, 2003  workshop

In 2010, Abraham would probably say something more like, Get in the Vortex before you hold anyone you care about as your focus of attention. The Vortex is Abraham’s term for a heart-coherent state, that state of appreciation and love you feel when you interact with pets and loved ones. The HeartMath Institute in Boulder Creek, CA has research proving that when we are in a heart-coherent state, we have a positive effect on those around us and to whom we are connected. Since we are connected through time and space, that means we can positively (or negatively) affect others by the feelings we hold in our hearts when we think of them.

If giving money feels good and heart-coherent to you, then do it. The money received from people holding anyone in high-regard, with love and appreciation, is very powerful and will create miracles. If you are not in a heart-coherent state about donating, please spare them your pity-money. Money imbued with hope, love, and appreciation will be so much more beneficial for their total recovery.

If you cannot get yourself to feel good for the people of Haiti, feeling stuck on the negative media images, then your work is to first clean up that vibration. Do what you need to do to get to a positive, loving, healing place on this subject so your actions will have a positive impact.

Look back on your own life, your own struggles, and remember how often those times were the catalyst for wonderful experiences that could not have happened otherwise. (See my post “Everything You Experience…Is A Blessing!“) Shift your own energy to a positive place in regard to Haiti, THEN, I ask you to join me in envisioning wholeness, recovery, and hopeful future for the people of Haiti.

And, then, send your money to them from the place of hope, love and appreciation so it will actually make a positive difference.

By the way, the same guidance goes for helping anyone you know who is unhealthy, struggling, out-of-work, or going through a hard time. You are of greater help to others when you are in a positive place, and hold them as the object of your uplifted vibration.

Please share your positive visions of healing, hope, and recovery for Haiti in the comments below…

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16 thoughts on “Want to *REALLY* Help Haiti…or Anyone Else?

  1. I wish you were kidding also, Nancy! Thank you for helping to get the word out that the way to help is to focus on the positive – the desired outcome. I can attest from my own experience that focusing on a positive outcome works! It has happened in my own life many times.

    I am joining forces with you.. getting into my heart and sending out waves of light, hope, healing, blessings, heart-felt energy, recovery and rebirth to Haiti and its people.

    Many blessings!
    Susan
    .-= Susan Eller´s last blog ..Five Steps to Transform Negative Thinking (and Your Life) =-.

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  3. I totally agree with what you say, we must send positive energy, loving thoughts, thoughts of healed wounds, abundance, peace, prosperity, health and not dwell on the negative, on the chaos, on all of the despair we see on news. Thank you for sharing the essence of your soul with us, your thoughts and knowledge. Many blessings

  4. Great post Nancy. We all need reminders that when holding the space for someone else( for ourselves too!) we must always first come from a place of love, only then can we help heal and restore harmony.
    Light & Love,
    Cathy

  5. Nancy, wow this is a very powerful post!
    I just got through saying that after storm there will be much greatness and beauty. I strongly believe that only good things will come from this.

    This also resonates with something I was thinking about the other day that I would like to share.

    A relationship I have with a friend has not been what it could have been and it took my getting upset and breaking the friendship for a day. I got no peace from doing that until I felt the need to forgive both of us and later on we fixed the friendship and it is better for it.

    While that is a little off topic here I would like to point out if we are holding negative feelings or attitude towards someone it truly does have a negative effect that person. So we seek to see that Haiti is healed, then we need to hold positive feelings towards them and think of what wonderful greatness will come from this.

    While the earthquake that struck there hurt many, I strongly believe that more good will come from it. Moreover I believe good always comes after the passing of any storm.

    Nancy, I want to thank you for doing your part in this healing beautifully and to everyone else also.

    Love and healing,

    ~Gaylena

  6. Nancy,

    I agree with what you have to say. We want to focus on what we want to see for people instead of focusing on what we don’t want to see. I like your visualization of the people in Haiti being better off than before the earthquake. I especially like where you focus on the feeling of positive energy going to everyone in Haiti & then feeling them benefiting immediately. This is what we need to do with our visualizations and prayers.

    For your readers, you may want to stay away from watching all the news that repeats all of the worst things about the earthquake (or whatever the disaster is). If you can’t avoid it, and you find yourself getting bummed out about it, if you know how to tap (EFT or Tap n Bitch)–just tap on what it is that you are feeling. You don’t have to get fancy, just make a commentary about your feelings, say a mouthful while tapping on a meridian, then say some more on the next point. As a guideline, tap around 7 times on each point. Do it until you feel some relief. Here is a tapping chart http://www.wayhealthy.us/wp/images/tappingpoints.jpg

    Thank you for your very timely blog.

    Light and Love,
    JoAnn
    @MiraclesGoddess on Twitter

    • Thank you, Susan, Lisa, Sharon, Iyabo, Cathy, Gaylena & JoAnn, for your great comments and adding *positive energy* to the situation in Haiti. Let’s get this positive message out to as many people as possible and DROWN out the negative vibe with a healing, loving, HOPEFUL one!

      JoAnn, thank you also for sharing the EFT idea and tapping chart.

      For those who listened to my December Co=Creation Cafe call with Joel Young of TruthsCompany.com, or Cathy Brennan’s interview with him on her site, NPA is also incredibly powerful in dramatically shifting energy almost instantly!

      Many blessings,
      Nancy

  7. Hi Nancy

    Another great,and stimulating blog post!

    What springs to mind for me, re: the meditation you experienced, is what that famous bloke from the Bible said:
    Forgive them, for they know not what they do” – and remember that this was said, not to patronise or be superior (a seductive trap for many ‘in the know’), but rather with heartfelt love and understanding for the pain of ignorance. He really was being the change he wanted to see!

    What I love about your post, is that it does the kindness of offering an alternative, more helpful and very practical way to participate in the healing and love-giving that wants to be offered!

    Your love and passion shine through here Nancy, and inspires and calls us to hold the highest vision – so Yay you, and Yay to the inevitable impact this has on the energetic ‘smooth transition’ in this growth for Haiti and her people! :0)

    Now, if you want to ‘get in the vortex’ before sending super-vibes to those you’d like to help – how about some NPA? For example, you mentioned ‘Heart-felt Love’ – and that’s a great cookie cutter to run through the NPA process, and will certainly get you right in the vortex!

    So, thanks again Nancy, for being YOU! – An inspiration , and force for tremendous, conscious, positive change on the planet!

    Love & Blessings

    Joel

    BTW: In case your readers haven’t heard of NPA, they can go to “What the heck is NPA?” or listen to our chat in the Co=Creation Cafe archive (#22 – Dec 09)!

    • Thank you, Joel, for stopping by and sharing more great wisdom! Lotsa cookie cutters for *letting in* heart-felt love and higher vibrations.

      I will keep those in mind and encourage folks who have no idea what NPA is …to listen to the Co=Creation Cafe interview with you about NPA. 😀

      Nice to see a fellow GoodVibe U alum here, Alora! I saw your positive energy for Haiti on GVU today. Thanks for stopping by 🙂

      Many blessings,
      Nancy

  8. Hi Nancy,
    I’m grateful for you and all the others who model a way that truly helps! We need to be in a heart-coherent state before focusing on Haiti and taking any inspired action– whether sending money or joining with others to “radiate our heart-focused care and compassion with the intention to help ease the emotional pain, fear, insecurity and loss these people are experiencing” as per an e-mail from The Global Coherence Initiative: http://www.glcoherence.org

    Clearly we can’t help to ease anyone else’s suffering if we match their vibration. Witnessing and raising our own inner state before we attempt to “help” is essential.
    Love and Appreciation to You,
    Kathleen
    .-= Kathleen Casey´s last blog ..Does the Question or the Answer Ignite Your Passion? =-.

    • Kathleen, not sure how I missed your reply, but I just wanted to say thank you for visiting my site and sharing your brilliance!

      I especially appreciated your comment…

      Clearly we can’t help to ease anyone else’s suffering if we match their vibration. Witnessing and raising our own inner state before we attempt to “help” is essential.

      Indeed! We can only lift others when we are in a good-feeling place, ourselves.

      Many blessings,
      Nancy

  9. Nancy …

    As always what you share resonates with me at every fiber of my being. You hit the nail on the head with this one!

    You said in the post “Do what you need to do to get to a positive, loving, healing place on this subject so your actions will have a positive impact.” … YES!

    As I mentioned to you the other day, I choose not to watch the TV when they are talking about Haiti (because all of it talks about and shows the devastation and the pain). Matter of fact, last night I went into the living room and my partner was watching CNN with Anderson Cooper and they were showing images that were just horrifying — I got up and left the room and then re-shifted my thoughts & feelings to a more positive place (getting that image out of my head). I honestly don’t know how people could put any of this in their vibrational bubble and be able to feel good. Energy is energy.

    Matter of fact, I challenge whether it is necessary for the media to show all the vivid negative images — really? Do they have to?

    I one time had a family member indicate to me that I was not grounded in “reality” if I wasn’t willing to look at these types of things. Like Abraham-Hicks states: “Never face reality unless your reality is just the way you want it to be!”

    That’s what I choose to embrace because it is all about feeling good AND we do not serve others (individuals or entire countries) by holding a place of negativity, worry and that “doom & gloom” mentality.

    Thank you, again Nancy for your wonderful contributions to shifting the energy of the world! 🙂

    To the world’s health & happiness,
    Maria

    • Maria, not sure how I missed your comment, but thank you for stopping by. Not surprisingly, I agree wholeheartedly with everything you say.

      Particularly, loved…

      Matter of fact, I challenge whether it is necessary for the media to show all the vivid negative images — really? Do they have to?

      NO, they don’t…but they have done it because it worked. That won’t always be the case, however. At some point, when the general public is so OD’d on shock & awe, the media will start connecting with audiences by focusing on the good outcomes in every situation.

      About a year ago, I did see some media beginning to question if all their gloom & doom was contributing to the stagnating economy. Uhm, YEAH! Fortunately, those who are more conscious have already started making a better-feeling choice and focusing on THAT.

      Many blessings,
      Nancy

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