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Affirming: The Healthy Mind When positive thoughts aren't enough: Positive co-creation requires a healthy mind.

Silent Scale, Holy Scale: Seasonal Self-Care Simplified, by Lisa Nordquist, health and ftiness coach, keynote speaker and author shares wise advice

Changing the World News and information about people who are changing the world by following their passions.

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Quarterly Quote

What we are today comes from
our thoughts of yesterday,
and our present thoughts
build our life of tomorrow:
Our life is the creation of our mind.

—The Buddha

Quarterly Affirmation

I Am grateful and I trust
my intuition that guides me daily!

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Affirming: The Healthy Mind
by Nancy Barry-Jansson

Each quarter, I write to you about how affirmations have worked powerfully in my life or in the lives of others. I truly believe there is healing power in positive words and thoughts, I use affirmations myself, and that passion for spreading the news about affirmations drove me to design and print Affirming Spirit™ Affirmation cards as well as develop the Affirming Spirit™ website. I don't need to be convinced that affirmations work. I know they do.

As the Seasons Change
However, every year as the days get shorter and the weather turns cooler, I find myself less able to think positively—even when using affirmations—and more inclined to prefer solitude and darkness. It sounds crazy, but I just want to hibernate!! It's hard for someone like myself, who understands the power of positive thought, to understand why positive thought is not as affective during the winter months. Instead, the thought of crawling into a cave, falling asleep and not coming out until spring becomes very appealing to me! Literally, there are days when it takes me all day just to wake up. To some, my behavior seems definitely depressed compared to my normally outgoing, upbeat, and friendly personality. Of course, when Spring comes with warmer weather and more sunshine, I'm a social butterfly once again.

Having displayed this behavior since I was a young child, I was astonished when I moved to Salt Lake City, to attend college, that I no longer felt the same lethargy during the winter months. If you haven't been to this rocky mountain city in the winter, let me just say it's BRIGHT. Being 3,500 feet above sea level, Salt Lake City is not only closer to the sun but the sun is out a lot during the winter time...or at least a lot more than I was used to while growing up. Even when the sun is not shining, the snow reflects the illumination of the skies and it is dramatically brighter than the eastern town near Lake Ontario where I was raised. During winter, Utah's sky is often bright blue with big puffy white clouds—a dramatic contrast to the dark gray gloom of Western NY state that I was accustomed to!!

Seasonal Affective Disorder [SAD]
While living in Salt Lake City, I first learned about and realized that I might have Seasonal Affective Disorder. SAD is characterized by depression that occurs only during the winter months, or when sunlight is minimal, and it is so common that the symptoms are usually accepted as normal. It is estimated that 25 million people every year in the U.S. alone suffer from SAD. While this disorder is found more often in women (four times!) than men, it is usually accompanied by carbohydrate cravings, excessive sleeping, weight gain, fatigue, reduced drive, and sometimes lowered immunity.

Scientists currently believe that high levels of melatonin, triggered by less sunlight during the winter months, are the cause of SAD. Bright light treatment has been found to be affective in alleviating the symptoms in more than 80% of those affected by 'winter blues'. Exposure to bright light can dramatically lower the amount of melatonin in the bloodstream. You can learn more about SAD and the use of light as a healing tool in the groundbreaking book entitled, Light—Medicine of the Future: How We Can Use It to Heal Ourselves Now, by Jacob Liberman, O.D., Ph.D. (scroll to bottom of article for more information or click here). This is a fascinating book about the importance of light on brain function, and a must-read for anyone that wants to understand how the brain works!

Let There Be Light
For years, I've suspected that I had SAD and knew there were lights available that could alleviate the symptoms. Several years ago, I changed all the light bulbs in my house to full spectrum bulbs and did notice that the light from these bulbs is much less yellow. Still, I just couldn't imagine how a light box speficially designed for sufferers of SAD could make a difference in mood.

This year, I decided that I'd lived long enough with this issue and it was time to find a solution. I found a special 10,000 lux desk light. I use it in the morning when I first get up, while it is often still gloomy outside, to illuminate me while I journal and start my day. Quickly I forget that it's even there, but I am amazed at the results. In just a few days, I not only had more energy and didn't need my usual afternoon nap, but I also had fewer cravings and was more efficient with my time. I've gotten a lot done since buying this lamp and that feeling of accomplishment has me feeling much more upbeat as I head into this holiday season. Who knew light could make this much of a difference? Evidently, Dr. Jacob Liberman does!

I should also mention that exercise is also an important tool in mood elevation, and can easily work in conjunction with light therapy. You can also combine daily walks with affirmations. Before going out for walks, I sometimes will read my affirmations just before I leave the house, then repeat them to myself as I walk, and return home to read the affirmations one more time. Repetive movement of the body will spark the endorphins, the feel-good hormones, in your brain which further lift your mood. I've often noticed that I feel better after exercising, but when you are suffering from SAD or any other form of depression, it's hard to even motivate yourself to move. The bottom line is: You can't get the benefit of exercise without actually doing it.

When Affirmations Aren't Enough
Affirmations are a fabulous tool for the healthy mind, but they won't help you if you are suffering from SAD, clinical or manic depression, or any other condition that saps your mental energies. So, if you recognize yourself in the description of SAD, or suspect that you have a condition that is hampering your life, seek treatment from a qualified practitioner that you respect.
You will be glad you did! The increased energy and improved attitude will make working with affirmations an even more powerful experience.

Many Blessings to you as you go about your day!


*Source: Light—Medicine of the Future: How We Can Use It to Heal Ourselves Now, by Jacob Liberman, O.D., Ph.D., 1991, Bear & Co., Inc. ISBN: 0-939680-80-7

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Silent Scale, Holy Scale:
Seasonal Self-Care Simplified

by Lisa Nordquist,

Health and Fitness Coach, Keynote Speaker, and Author

The holidays are notoriously associated with large meals, parties laden with goodies, skipping the gym, and gaining weight. Most of us also face the burden of added time constraints, shopping, decorating, traffic, plus all the additional stressors that can impinge upon what time we usually dedicate to self-care. We eat, drink, and bustle ourselves into seasonal bloated-ness that compounds our already challenging New Year's resolutions to get fit.

Is there an answer to this holiday fitness fiasco?

How do you get through the holidays un-bloated? Is there a way to enjoy the season without blowing up or blowing-off your self-care altogether?

There is an answer to the holiday fitness fiasco, but it may not be the one you're expecting. Fill yourself up with water prior to attending holiday events? Avoid everything but the veggie tray? Shun the chocolate reindeer heads lurking around your office? No. Instead, I am going to suggest you shift your mindset about your self-care and fitness to that of a long-term process. Start thinking of your weight maintenance and fitness endeavors as life-long pursuits instead of arrival oriented goals or seasonal coping mechanisms.

Most of us begin fitness and weight loss programs based on reaching a goal or a destination. We think that once we achieve our fitness objective we will "arrive" and the disdain we hold for our bodies, exercise, or vegetables will magically disappear. Along this line of logic, we establish extreme exercise routines or absurd diet guidelines, convincing ourselves the arrival at our goal weight will bring success, euphoria, and effortless maintenance.

Fitness and your ideal weight are not destinations at which you can arrive without consideration of the reality of your everyday life, including the holidays. Fitness is a state of being, not an arrival point. Staying fit is exactly like having a child or starting a career. When you've conceived and given birth, your role as a parent is just beginning. There is an entire lifetime of everyday decisions and responsibilities ahead. When you embark on a new career you have just begun the road to becoming successful, not arrived there. It may take 20 years or more of daily commitment and dedication before you're considered "successful" or establish yourself in the business world.

Fitness is no different. Your eating habits and inclinations will not be fixed by a prescribed breakfast-lunch-dinner chart. Your disdain for exercise can't be solved by a flashy fitness class. To stay fit or maintain your weight, your mindset about your self-care must be similar to that toward your marriage, career, or parent role: long term and process oriented.

The Flow Zone
One of the most effective principles to keep yourself in process with your self-care is learning to put your self in what I call the "Flow Zone". The Flow Zone is the mental and behavioral parameters of keeping fitness a process. The Flow Zone is the balanced zone between the polar ends of totally starving on a diet and over-exercising, or eating in an unhealthful way and not exercising at all.

Most of us swing from one opposite to the other, making our behavior inconsistent and extreme. Those people that are challenged with fitness have had a somewhat consistent pattern in their lives of swinging from one end of the zone to the other, from black to white, on or off the diet, exercising or being a sloth, and never really find the balanced zone in the middle. The Flow Zone is the middle, when you can start to hold your self-care in a more neutral and stable zone. The Flow Zone means you are living a healthy, but enjoyable, lifestyle everyday. Instead of going back and forth on your exercise and diet, you learn to embrace and flow with the middle space-the balanced zone in between extremes.

In terms of the holidays, the Flow Zone means adopting a mindset of balance and avoiding extremes. Think of yourself as a pendulum. On each end of the pendulum's arc there are two behavioral extremes: couch potato and fitness freak. When you pull yourself to one end of the behavioral extreme, as the pendulum, you will always swing back to the other extreme. A vicious, pendulous cycle then begins and continues leaving you rich with adipose tissue and deprived of motivation and self-confidence.

How do you get yourself in the Flow Zone?
Ask yourself, "How can I make this situation healthier?" with every situation in your life. Can you add a salad or vegetables to your dinner? Can you subtract the butter or fatty dressing? Can you forgo the dessert for fruit or have hot tea instead? Can you walk the response you were going to email to a coworker? Can you look for the farthest parking space and return the shopping cart after ward to burn a few more calories? If you don't have 60 minutes to workout, do you have 15 to walk around your office building?

The Flow Zone is based on the principle that everything counts. Everything you do (or say to yourself) all day, everyday, counts to make you healthier and fitter, or the opposite. Author Adelle Davis said that everyday you choose to either build health or disease in yourself. And, she's right. Everything you do today does count. Your choices today will make you healthier and fitter today and in years to come, or unhealthier and less fit from now on. One more cookie counts and one less cookie counts. Everything you do, positive or negative, counts.

Your self-care is not going to be perfect all the time, and if you try to make it fit within rigid parameters it will move away from being a livable, daily process, and become an on and off, inconsistency in your life. Consistency is not built on perfection, but a continued return. Lasting fitness is based in consistency. Fitness, like a marriage, a career, or parenthood is a life long endeavor and thrives when it is handled as such.

Take the best care of yourself possible during the holidays, stay in the Flow Zone, and enjoy your loved ones. Think of your fitness as a long-term process instead of a get-thin-quick scheme. A fitness program that works for you will be the one that fits into your life and includes the delights of the holidays.


Copyright 2004 Lisa Nordquist. Used with permission.

Lisa Nordquist has a BA in Psychology and is an ACE certified personal trainer. She is a health & fitness coach and keynote speaker in San Diego, California. Her first book, "Love Yourself Fit!", is scheduled for release in spring 2005. You can visit her website at www.loveyourselffit.com or she can be reached at lisa@loveyourselffit.com.

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Changing the World

Using Passion to Make a Difference

Lisa Nordquist has created a unique approach to health and fitness that incorporates the science of fitness, the art of motivation and the principles of psychology. Through individual and group Personal Coaching, she helps to bring her clients to a new level of awareness and true, lasting success with their self-care. With a belief in loving and fun fitness, Lisa guides her clients to discover their own dynamic motivation and strategize permanent self-care solutions. Ms. Nordquist is a Certified Personal Trainer and Group Exercise Instructor with American Council on Exercise (ACE) and Fitness Professional International (FPI). She has a Bachelors Degree in Psychology with an emphasis in Health Behaviors. She is a published author and expects publication of her book, “Love Yourself Fit!” in 2005 and you can learn more about her at www.loveyourselffit.com.

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Winter 2004

Volume 1/Issue 4
December 1, 2004